7.09.2011

必然??

很怕聽到"你趕快結婚就不用這麼辛苦工作啦~" X !現在是什麼年代?? (社會動盪的年代:P)不介意另一半給$我花,但非常介意"奉旨"要人供養----對我來說那是個人能力的侮辱.有什麼比自己賺自己花開心??而且工作中的滿足感不是單靠丈夫便可得到(個人目標極其重要)
婚姻可以是墳墓,但絕對不是飯碗.



若婚姻是全部, 那我的人生便很失敗.



i dun like to hear abt "U should get marry,then needn't work anymore!"omg,social unrest nowadays.How can u rely everything on husband?i dun mind he gives me $ to spend but i really disagree it's a must & i can unemploy-----u know it's an insult of my ability.Nothing is happier than my own gain & spend.Also he can't he me the job satisfaction (personal target is damn important)Marriage can be the tomb of love but certainly not the source of pay.If marriage is everything for me, i'm a loser in my life.

3 則留言:

Raphael Wong 說...

不能同意更多。

More than agree.

Audrey Lily 說...

很好奇還有此觀念的人(不論老少),不知道物價上漲,還是覺得只用美色便能輕易迷惑男人,不做徐子淇,也可做個少奶奶....

Raphael Wong 說...

這誠然與中國傳統數百年的socialization不無關係。即使現實未能做到,內心總潛藏這一種願景(成就?)。

不知道其他大男人社會,如日本及韓國的情況是否一樣?